The consequences of emotional and verbal abuse can be as damaging as physical abuse, though
much harder to recognize, and therefore more difficult to recover from. Emotional and verbal
abuse may cause long term self esteem issues. Listed below are some examples of emotional and
When a person is threatened, intimidated, humiliated, yelled at, or blamed, and made to feel inferior
Constant emotional or verbal assaults that make someone feel sad, worthless and/or unwanted;
Name calling, making them feel crazy, playing mind games, and blame shifting;
Using words and feelings to strike out, embarrass, shame, insult or reject;
May include excessive, aggressive or unreasonable demands that are beyond a persons capacity;
Constant criticizing, belittling, insulting, and rejecting are all examples of emotional
and verbal abuse.
Emotional and verbal abuse may happen for months and years before any damage is evident. By the
time the injury is noticed, the person may already be having significant difficulty coping with
life. Emotional and verbal abuse ultimately affects a persons development and sense of
As children we are taught, “sticks and stones may break your bones, but words will never hurt you”
in a sing song rhyme. That rhyme could not be further from the truth. The principle behind
the message was to teach children physical violence shouldn’t be used when someone calls you a
name. The deeper message though teaches children to tolerate verbal abuse. By the time survivors
become adults, the message to accept and tolerate verbal abuse is ingrained almost into our
souls. Many times survivors themself can not even recognize it.
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